Bella naija raised a topic about sex before marriage or premarital sex, these were my views on the topic:
Sex outside marriage is more religious than cultural. But i advise true Christians to be more spiritual than religious if they intend making heaven. Apart from religion, sex before marriage complicates things most times, a lot of ladies have gotten married because they got pregnant during their “trial and error” relationships. Some are single moms out of lack of choice. If these ladies had abstained from sex they won’t be in the mess they’re in today. Sex outside marriage brings regrets, do you know many girls have aborted unwanted pregnancies each day? and I am sure they regret opening their legs, well some have done it to a point where by now they don’t even see anything wrong with it anymore. what of heartbreaks that could have been avoided? most times after we ladies have sex with a guy we automatically assume he is our boyfriend. not knowing the guy was only shagging for fun, then they say “he broke my heart, I will never love again” but Love aint sex baby… lol I am not claiming ms “goody goody” or holier than thou cos I have been having sex outside marriage and it hasn’t brought me any good, so I just thought to let you guys know. Thumbs Up to the virgins, una try, God give you strength and grace to wait for that Man he has ordained for you. Amen
Apart from religion, sex before marriage complicates things most times, a lot of ladies have gotten married because they got pregnant during their “trial and error” relationships. Some are single moms out of lack of choice. If these ladies had abstained from sex they won’t be in the mess they’re in today. Sex outside marriage brings regrets, do you know many girls have aborted unwanted pregnancies each day? and I am sure they regret opening their legs, well some have done it to a point where by now they don’t even see anything wrong with it anymore. what of heartbreaks that could have been avoided? most times after we ladies have sex with a guy we automatically assume he is our boyfriend. not knowing the guy was only shagging for fun, then they say “he broke my heart, I will never love again” but Love aint sex baby… lol
I am not claiming ms “goody goody” or holier than thou cos I have been having sex outside marriage and it hasn’t brought me any good, so I just thought to let you guys know. Thumbs Up to the virgins, una try, God give you strength and grace to wait for that Man he has ordained for you. Amen
Open to divers opinions, feel free people!